If you're in a relationship and looking to increase both pleasure and intimacy, consider experimenting with a sex toy created with partnered play in mind. Far from being a sign that your intimacy is somehow lacking, using pleasure products with your partner shows that you're open to exploration and adventure. Shopping for a toy together can even count as foreplay. Browse together online from your bed, or have an adventurous date at your local adult store.
Better yet, you can use many couples toys on your own, like the Hitachi Magic Wand, so they're useful even when your partner's not on hand. Meanwhile, toys like the We-Vibe Sync that are app-connected allow you to play together while on opposite sides of the world. To help you and your boo come together, we've chosen a selection of our favorite couples toys. From powerful wands to penis rings that will make you wonder what you did without them, these toys cater to a range of preferences and budgets. We've also added a selection of vibrators worn inside the vagina that basically turn your vagina into a vibrator, for all parties to enjoy. You might just choose to stay in for your next date night.
Hitachi Magic Wand
The Magic Wand is known as the "Cadillac of Vibrators" for a reason. It's powerful and if you're looking for a sure way to get off, it's likely your best bet. The magic wand can also be used for super freaky fun with a partner. If one partner has a clit, the other can take the magic wand into their hands and control the on and off button. This can lead to some dominance and submission play. The handle also works wonders to add to penetrative sex and help the partner with a clit get off.
$60 (Shop Now)
Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Realistic Double-Ended Dildo
This beautiful purple dildo from Doc Johnson is double-sided, so two people with vaginas can use it at the same time. Of course, any gender, orientation, or orifice can enjoy it with enough lube. If your partner has a penis, sometimes it's really fun and exciting for them to penetrate you with something other than their bio penis.
$20 (Shop Now)
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
If you've ever been curious about strap-on sex, this harness kit from Lovehoney contains everything you need: an adjustable harness and a seven-inch dildo that works well for both vaginal and anal sex. Did we mention oral? If you have a vagina, sometimes there's nothing hotter than having your partner go down on you while you're wearing a strap-on.
$40 (Shop Now)
We-Vibe Anniversary Collection
It doesn't need to be your anniversary to celebrate love with We-Vibe's anniversary collection. The set includes the We-Vibe Sync, which is worn inside the vagina. The person wearing it enjoys dual internal G-Spot and external clitoral stimulation, and if your partner has a penis, they enjoy the vibrations as they penetrate you. Both products are water-proof, so try them in the bathtub.
$229 (Shop Now)
Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Cock Ring
This stretchy, affordable cock ring is just as fun for sex toy beginners as it is for seasoned pros. It has one ring that wraps around the base of the penis and a second ring that nestles between the testicles and the pelvis, providing gentle but pleasurable constriction for both dick and balls. This product's best feature, though, is its powerful bullet vibrator, which is perfectly positioned to stimulate the clit during penetrative sex.
$25 (Shop Now)
Desire Luxury USB Rechargeable Remote Control Vibrating Panties
Sure, vibrating panties can be pretty gimmicky. But they can also be pretty damn fun — especially when you invest a bit more and get a pair with a satisfyingly powerful vibrator, like this model. There's something incredibly sexy about being in public with your partner as they control your pleasure while no one around has any idea. Be warned, though: With this toy's eight speeds and 12 patterns, you may have trouble maintaining your composure.
$100 (Shop Now)
Dame Products Eva
The wings of this hands-free vibrator are designed to nestle in the labia so that the toy stays put and stimulates your clit during penetrative sex. While no one should feel self-conscious about touching their clitoris during partnered play, there's something liberating about letting your hands take a vacation — or freeing them up to explore other zones of the body.
$98 (Shop Now)
Je Joue Mio
Penises tend to be underserved in the sex toy market. If you're dating someone who has one, show them you've got their needs covered by snagging them this vibrating cock ring. Cock rings sit at the base of the penis and can prolong erections by restricting blood flow. The Je Joue Mio vibrates, sending sensations all along the shaft and down the testicles for pleasure that resonates through the entire body. It can be worn alone or during penetrative sex. Looking for more sex toys that are perfect for penises? We rounded up the best products on the market right here.
$78 (Shop Now)
We-Vibe Sync
The We-Vibe Sync is designed to stay put as you change positions, fitting comfortably inside the vagina during penetrative sex and providing both internal and external stimulation with its deep vibrations. Better yet, the free We-Connect app lets you control the toy from anywhere in the world — meaning your partner can have a hand in your pleasure no matter how far away they are.
$199 (Shop Now)
Lelo Tiani 2
The Tiani 2 is a classy take on partnered vibrators meant to be worn by someone with a vagina during sex. If you can afford it and are feeling extra generous, skip jewelry and give your partner the 24-karat gold version. It's a particularly indulgent way to experience this gorgeous toy, which is as functional as it is pretty.
$159 (Shop Now)
Jimmyjane Iconic Ring
This flexible cock ring from Jimmyjane is both super affordable and a hell of a lot of fun. The motor of this shower-friendly and washable toy aligns with the clit during penetrative sex while also stimulating the penis-owning wearer. The gentle constriction provided by the ring, meanwhile, helps keep erections going strong.
$20 (Shop Now)
Satisfyer Partner Whale
Satisfyer's adorable partner vibrator resembles a whale and is fittingly waterproof so that it can join you in the bathtub or shower. Designed to hug the body, it provides a powerful combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation. If you have a vagina and want your partner to help you squirt, hand them this accessory and let them get to work.
$40 (Shop Now)
Sportsheets Mini Riding Crop
If you're looking to try impact play — that's paddling, flogging, and other forms of consensual striking — it's never a bad idea to start small and work your way up. Hands work just great for spanking, but if you're ready to add an implement to the mix, this faux leather crop is a great place to start. At 12 inches long and two inches wide, it's also the perfect size to take with you on your travels or throw in your bag on your way to a date.
$12 (Shop Now)
Lovehoney Silky Black Blindfold
One of the easiest and most effective ways to build anticipation during partnered play is to wear a blindfold. Without your vision, your senses of touch and hearing seem even sharper, and when you're not exactly sure what your partner will do next, the suspense can be totally delicious. This super soft blindfold fits virtually any face shape and is way sexier than your average sleep mask.
$17 (Shop Now)
Doc Johnson iVibe Select iWand
Wand vibrators such as the iconic Magic Wand are an ideal addition to your twosome during partnered sex. The long handle allows for easy maneuvering and stimulation of the clitoris or another erogenous zone. This wand from Doc Johnson warms up as it gets you off, making it a welcome companion during colder months. Gift it to your partner so you can use it together or so they can keep themselves snuggly when you're away.
$162 (Shop Now)
Lelo Lyla 2
With eight different settings and a surprising amount of power for its size, this bullet vibrator would be a standout sex toy even if it weren't remote-controlled. It's the ability to operate it from across the room that brings its appeal to another level, however: Lelo recommends giving your partner the remote and enjoying the toy out in public — at a restaurant, for instance — while the rest of the world remains none the wiser. The toy's quiet vibrations will ensure that only you and your partner are in on the secret.
$159 (Shop Now)
Tenga SVR Cock Ring
This vibrating ring from Tenga slides right around your finger. Regardless of how you feel about marriage, wearing this toy will heighten your intimacy: Placing your hands all over someone is already sexy, and this gives you the vibrating touch of a sex god.
It's also not just for the clitoris, although it can certainly lead to an orgasm when applied there. "This can be used on perineums [the skin between the anus and the scrotum or vulva] or even on nipples," sex therapist Chris Donaghue tells Allure. "Its size and durability make it great for travel as well, which is when couples often have the time and space for the best sex of their lives."
$80 (Shop Now)
Liberator Heart Wedge
When it comes to pleasure products, a sex pillow such as the Liberator Heart Wedge may seem like a less obvious choice than a vibrator. Once you and your partner try one of these pillows, though, you'll wonder how you did without it. During penetrative sex, the receiving partner can angle their body by lying on the wedge, allowing the giving partner to target the prostate or the vagina's super sensitive front wall. The pillow is water-resistant, so come and squirt away. It also has such a pretty heart shape that you may want to leave it on display even when you're not on top of it.
$79 (Shop Now)
MysteryVibe Crescendo
The shape-shifting Crescendo does it all. If you can't decide between all the different toys out there, choose this adjustable piece from MysteryVibe. The vibrator can be worn flat against the body or bent into a "U" shape for both external and internal pleasure. Explore all the ways the toy bends during a partnered session, then rest assured your partner will have many ways to occupy themselves when you're not around.
$179 (Shop Now)
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